Building a strong faith-based marriage

Marriage is a beautiful and sacred union that requires commitment, patience, and understanding. For couples who share a strong faith, building a marriage based on their beliefs and values can be a rewarding and fulfilling experience.

So how do we build a strong faith-based marriage that honors God and strengthens your bond with your spouse at the same time? Here’s a few things that we have learned along the way.

Put God First in Your Marriage

The foundation of any faith-based marriage is putting God at the center of your relationship. Make time for prayer and worship together, attend church services regularly, participate in a bible study or marriage group, and prioritize your spiritual growth as a couple. By focusing on your faith, you'll strengthen your bond with each other and with God, and build a solid foundation for your marriage.

Communicate Openly and Honestly

Effective communication is crucial in any marriage. Make an effort to listen actively to your partner, express your feelings honestly and respectfully, and work together to resolve conflicts. By communicating openly and honestly, you'll build trust and understanding in your relationship, and grow closer to each other and to God.

Practice Forgiveness and Grace

This one is hard no doubt. Especially if there has been an injured party. No marriage is perfect, and every couple will face challenges and struggles at some point. When conflicts arise, it's important to practice forgiveness and grace towards your spouse. Remember that as Christians, we are called to love and forgive others as God has loved and forgiven us. By extending grace and forgiveness to your spouse, you'll strengthen your bond and deepen your faith.

Invest in Your Relationship

This is probably the most important thing we have learned…..and it’s the hardest to commit to. Building a strong faith-based marriage requires ongoing effort and investment. Make time for date nights, attend marriage retreats and conferences (XO conference is our favorite), and seek out advice and guidance from trusted friends, pastors, mentors or counselors. By investing in your relationship, you'll strengthen your bond, deepen your faith, and build a lasting, fulfilling marriage.

Seek Guidance from Scripture

The Bible offers invaluable wisdom and guidance for building a strong faith-based marriage. Make time to read and study scripture together, and seek out passages that offer insight and guidance for your relationship. By incorporating scripture into your marriage, you'll deepen your faith, strengthen your bond, and build a solid foundation for your life together.

Building a strong faith-based marriage is a journey that requires commitment, patience, and understanding. By putting God first, communicating effectively, practicing forgiveness and grace, investing in your relationship, and seeking guidance from scripture, you'll build a lasting, fulfilling marriage that honors God and strengthens your bond with your spouse.

I hope these tips help your marriage grow as much as they have helped ours!